Whether you’re dating, going steady, or you found “the one” sex is special and you never want to lose that spark! Some say that, just like wine, sex with your soul mate gets better with age and the key to keeping it real is to try new things and never let your bond grow stale.

And that’s the secret to better sex! Talking about what turns you on – and what turns you off – keeps things fresh and you’ll never have to guess what your partner is thinking in the bedroom. 

But what many couples don’t know is that some women need a little more than a strong connection, a turn-on, and a partner to play with to have orgasmic results.

Approximately 75% of women are unable to easily have orgasms from sexual intercourse without additional stimulation of the clitoris. It’s a woman’s most physically sensitive sex organ – it has more than 8,000 nerve endings just waiting to be stimulated and most women need something extra to do it.

And couples sex toys that offer that essential clitoral stimulation during sex can change your sex life.

Kim Wallen, professor of psychology and behavioral neuroendocrinology at Emory University, researches women’s physiology and in 2008 concluded that women’s ability to orgasm from sexual intercourse WITHOUT simultaneous clitoral stimulation depends simply on the distance between her vaginal opening and her clitoris.

Women whose clitorises lie about an inch from their vaginas tend to have more frequent orgasms during sex. Anything more than an inch and regular intercourse probably won’t do the trick.

But with a mini vibrator – held against the clitoris by her or him – can get her there, and hands-free sex toys that can be worn around the penis (i.e. vibrating rings) or comfortably on her vulva make it even easier!